Eight weeks out: name the gathering
Start with the few details people need in order to decide: the reunion name, dates, city, and one organizer who can answer questions. You do not need the complete itinerary before inviting family. A clear first invitation creates momentum and reveals what the plan actually needs.
Send the invitation through more than one channel. Some relatives will respond to a text, others to email, and some will need a call from a person they know.
Six weeks out: collect useful RSVPs
Ask who is coming, how many people are in their party, whether children are attending, and what accessibility, food, or transportation needs the organizers should understand. Keep the form short enough that someone can finish it on a phone.
Four weeks out: share the work
Turn the planning list into named responsibilities. Assign one person to each outcome—not a large committee to every task. Lodging, transportation, meals, elders, children’s activities, music, photographs, and family history each need an owner and a next step.
Two weeks out: publish one itinerary
Give the family one current place to check dates, times, locations, what to bring, and who to contact. Mark optional activities honestly. Leave breathing room between events; connection often happens in the time a schedule does not control.
The week of: communicate changes calmly
Send one welcome message and use the same source for updates. Highlight only what changed. Make sure the people welcoming elders, travelers, and first-time attendees know their roles.
Afterward: complete the memory
Within a week, invite everyone to contribute photographs, voice notes, recipes, corrections to names, and one memory they want carried forward. A reunion is not finished when the chairs are folded. It is finished when the family can find what happened and build from it.
Plan the gathering in one private place.
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